Joy

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Joy

By Dahni
© 2023, all rights reserved

   Why do we spend so much time and effort on the pursuit of happiness? Why do we run from it to either grow up or just to be a responsible adult? Maybe we don’t believe we deserve to be happy or are worthy of happiness? Perhaps our efforts are to punish ourselves and forbid ourselves from happiness because of, bad stuff we have done or think we have done?

   Oh, I’ve come to terms with happiness because, it is so elusive like a butterfly or like a carrot on a stick – neither of which we can ever seem to net or catch. Happiness always seems so temporal if we find it or it’s just out of reach.

   So over the years, I developed my own little theory about happiness. Part of it comes from a line from many “fairytales” we are likely familiar with from our childhood. Another comes from a song by the late Jimmy Buffet-

Happily Ever After
(at least once in awhile)

   Well isn’t that special? No, it does not really help anyone or me, why not? Well, news flash to me, happiness is a relative thing. This means it could be different for nearly every person. Maybe we form groups, associations, clubs, families and clans when our people-social unions have the same or similar types of happiness in common?

   Oh I get it, maybe we get talked out of happiness or we are not supposed to pursue happiness because, it’s childish? Funny thing is that we all want to be happy and we all pursue happiness anyway. What about the people of the United States and the ‘Pursuit of Happiness’ in our founding documents?

   But here is something I just discovered – joy is right in front of us.

   How convenient for me to have discovered this and to be sharing it with you at Christmas time or during the holiday times if you prefer – Hanukah, Kwanzaa or whatever. But sticking with Christmas, look at the many references to “joy” from carols and songs:

“Joy to the World”
Good Tidings of Comfort and Joy”
“Ode to Joy”
“Joyful , Joyful We Adore Thee”
“Oh For Joy”
“Joy”
(probably a lot more, but “joy” is everywhere)

   About the last one above, “Joy” is a song by English singer-songwriter Mick Jagger. Yep, that’s what you read and that’s the guy, the lead singer of the Rolling Stones. Go figure. But his song ‘Joy’ was released on his fourth solo album, Goddess in the Doorway (2001). Rolling Stone Magazine called it “a rocking, gospel-tinged collaboration with Bono of U2” – featuring Pete Townshend (remember the rock band The Who), on guitar. “Joy” was one of three tracks from Goddess in the Doorway to be featured on Jagger’s greatest hits album, The Very Best of Mick Jagger.

“Joy is everywhere!

   Maybe we can’t see joy because, we are not looking for it, we’re focused on happiness? Joy is not relative! Not only is it not relative, it is universal. It’s real. It’s scientific. Joy knows no language, culture, education, age, borders, sex or anything else that otherwise separate us people from each other.

   Joy is common to all. Joy is all around us. Joy is everywhere. I suppose we don’t look for it because, once we experience it, we feel just like kids again. No, joy may not make us younger, but it sure can make us feel young and well hey, that could certainly contribute to both our good health and long life.

“A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.”

Proverbs 17:22 King James Version (KJV)

   A merry heart can physically effect our pain response, immune system and so many other physiological and biologic processes. No guessing there or mere positive-projection, it’s real. So is joy.

   Just for fun, how many times is the word “happy” and the word “joy” used in the Bible?

25 times the word “happy” is found in the King James Version
187 times is found the word ”joy”

   Before we look at many of these, would you agree that “joy” is found many more times in the Bible than the word “happy”? Would you think there might be a reason, a purpose, a design for this and that it is intentional?

   So let’s look at some “joy” from the Word of God. If we should experience joy and if it is so readily available to all people everywhere, wouldn’t God mention it in His Word?

“For his anger endureth but a moment; in his favour is life: weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.”

Psalm 30:5 KJV

   Sure, when we make others mad, we are uncomfortable with that for a while, but it does not generally last indefinitely, not with God anyway. And grief and mourning may be difficult especially at night, but what comes up in the morning? Have you ever been on an airplane and it’s dark and stormy out? Did you ever get above the clouds and see the sun shining? How does this make you feel? Do you not feel joy?

“Make a joyful noise unto God, all ye lands:”

Psalm 66:1 KJV

   Like cheerful humming, that could be a a “joyful noise.”

“Let the field be joyful, and all that is therein: then shall all the trees of the wood rejoice.”

Psalm 96:12 KJV

   Waving fields of grain, don’t they make you feel joy? What about trees waving in a gentle breeze? Don’t these make you feel joy as if the trees are rejoicing too? What is rejoicing but to re-joy again!

“Let the floods clap their hands: let the hills be joyful together.”

Psalm 98:8 KJV

   Water through the rocks sounding like clapping and echoes through the hills (plus their rounded shapes), aren’t those joyful sounds?

“And whatsoever mine eyes desired I kept not from them, I withheld not my heart from any joy; for my heart rejoiced in all my labour: and this was my portion of all my labour.”

Ecclesiastes 2:10

   Joy in ceasing from your labor and joy from the many things you see that your heart desires = joy.

“There is nothing better for a man, than that he should eat and drink, and that he should make his soul enjoy good in his labour. This also I saw, that it was from the hand of God.”

Ecclesiastes 2:24

   Joy is everywhere and it is from God and by His multitude of reminders in nature that all people should joy.

“Thou hast multiplied the nation, and not increased the joy: they joy before thee according to the joy in harvest, and as men rejoice when they divide the spoil.”

Isaiah 9:3 KJV

   Having a larger population of joyful people increases joy. At harvest time we joy to see the bounty of the fields being brought in.

“Therefore with joy shall ye draw water out of the wells of salvation.”

Isaiah 12:3 KJV

   Drawing water from a well causes joy especially if you are really thirsty and the water is cool and refreshing, to save you from a parched throat.

“And gladness is taken away, and joy out of the plentiful field; and in the vineyards there shall be no singing, neither shall there be shouting: the treaders shall tread out no wine in their presses; I have made their vintage shouting to cease.”

Isaiah 16:10 KJV

   Look at the opposites of the verse – joy from a field of plenty (good food to eat), vineyards full – joy from eating grapes and from drinking a little wine.

“The mirth of tabrets ceaseth, the noise of them that rejoice endeth, the joy of the harp ceaseth.”

Isaiah 24:8 KJV

   The sound of the harp, a violin, flute, piano, guitar, trumpet and other musical instruments cause joy.

“Because the palaces shall be forsaken; the multitude of the city shall be left; the forts and towers shall be for dens for ever, a joy of wild asses, a pasture of flocks;”

Isaiah 32:14 KJV

   Leaping, jumping and frolicking little donkeys, horses, goats too, cows, calves, sheep and more, have joy and bring us joy when we see them act this way.

“And the ransomed of the Lord shall return, and come to Zion with songs and everlasting joy upon their heads: they shall obtain joy and gladness, and sorrow and sighing shall flee away.”

Isaiah 35:10 KJV

   Singing songs bring joy.

“For ye shall go out with joy, and be led forth with peace: the mountains and the hills shall break forth before you into singing, and all the trees of the field shall clap their hands.”

Isaiah 55:12

   What beautiful mind pictures or figures of speech this verse brings to mind. When we experience joy it is as if the echoes we hear from the hills are sounding joy (breaking out with singing), and the wind through the trees seem to have joy when you walk by!

“To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he might be glorified.”

Isaiah 61:3 KJV

   Having oil to light your lamps, for your food and to soothe our often tiredness and soreness, give us joy.

“Thy words were found, and I did eat them; and thy word was unto me the joy and rejoicing of mine heart: for I am called by thy name, O Lord God of hosts.”

Jeremiah 15:16 KJV

   Surely we have all heard words like this and it was as we just eat them up because, they give us such joy.

“The voice of joy, and the voice of gladness, the voice of the bridegroom, and the voice of the bride, the voice of them that shall say, Praise the Lord of hosts: for the Lord is good; for his mercy endureth for ever: and of them that shall bring the sacrifice of praise into the house of the Lord. For I will cause to return the captivity of the land, as at the first, saith the Lord.”

Jeremiah 33:11 KJV

   Voices speaking or singing or humming can cause us joy. Newlyweds and weddings give us joy. Birthdays and all manner of celebrations give us joy.

“For was not Israel a derision unto thee? was he found among thieves? for since thou spakest of him, thou skippedst for joy.”

Jeremiah 48:27 KJV

   Skipping causes joy. Try it if you still can! Ask a child or watch them skip. All of these things will cause joy.

“The vine is dried up, and the fig tree languisheth; the pomegranate tree, the palm tree also, and the apple tree, even all the trees of the field, are withered: because joy is withered away from the sons of men.”

Joel 1:2 KJV

   Just the opposite of the things above, joy can be experienced because of trees, their fruit and their leaves all in abundance.

“When they saw the star, they rejoiced with exceeding great joy.”

Matthew 2:10 KJV

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   When the Magi saw the astrological signs in the sky, they rejoiced with exceeding great joy because,
they were following “his star!” We experience joy when we see stars.

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto treasure hid in a field; the which when a man hath found, he hideth, and for joy thereof goeth and selleth all that he hath, and buyeth that field.”

Matthew 13:44 KJV

   Have you ever been somewhere and the location was so wonderful and it gave you so much joy, you wanted to buy the house there, rent it, or maybe buy the property and build your home there? Rounding the bend and seeing that you are almost home again, does this not bring joy!

“His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.”

Matthew 25:21 KJV

   Isn’t it obvious that if what you do gives joy to others that you would benefit and be joyous or joyful too?

“And they departed quickly from the sepulchre with fear and great joy; and did run to bring his disciples word.”

Matthew 28:8 KJV

   Come on, surely we must know that in the above verse that the word “fear” is respect or awe as, how would it be possible to be afraid and joyful?

“Thou hast made known to me the ways of life; thou shalt make me full of joy with thy countenance.”

Acts 2:28 KJV

      Seeing the countenance of another gives joy.

“But none of these things move me, neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might finish my course with joy, and the ministry, which I have received of the Lord Jesus, to testify the gospel of the grace of God.”

Acts 20:24 KJV

   Finishing your degree, finishing the work week — (TGIF Thank God It’s Friday and the weekend), making it to retirement, finishing your course or purpose in life, gives joy.

“And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.”

Romans 5:11 KJV

   Joy in, the word “in” is the Greek preposition en = totally within. Joy in God. So yes, enjoy yourself, totally in God.

“Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.”

Romans 15:13 KJV

   “Joy and peace in (en = totally within), believing why? So we can abound in hope through the power of the spirit of God from God in us. How? Because all of this comes from the the God of Hope. The word hope is used twice here. The number two (2), numerically means = “it is established”

“And I wrote this same unto you, lest, when I came, I should have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy is the joy of you all.”

2 Corinthians 2:3 KJV

   My joy is that it is the joy of all! Have you ever felt joy just because others you care about joy?

“Great is my boldness of speech toward you, great is my glorying of you: I am filled with comfort, I am exceeding joyful in all our tribulation.”

2 Corinthians 7:4 KJV

   Even joy in tribulation! Notice it does not say happiness in tribulation (pressure etc), but joy!

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,”

Galatians 5:22 KJV

   All people can experience joy, but the Christian can receive even more (“fullness of joy”) and it is a fruit (1 of 9 fruits), we receive when we operate the manifestations of the spirit – speaking in tongues, tongues with interpretation, word of prophecy, word of knowledge, word of wisdom, discerning of spirits, manifestation of believing, miracles, and gifts (plural) of healings (plural). What? Not only can we have joy in operating the manifestations, but we get “joy” as one of the fruit of the spirit when we do? Yep, that’s what it says and that’s exactly what it means. Fullness?

“You will make known to me the path of life;
In Your presence is fullness of joy;
In Your right hand there are pleasures forever.”

Psalm 16:11 KJV

“And these things write we unto you, that your joy may be full.”

1 John 1:4 KJV

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“Always in every prayer of mine for you all making request with joy,”

Philippians 1:4 KjV

   There is joy in praying for others.

“For what is our hope, or joy, or crown of rejoicing? Are not even ye in the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ at his coming?”

1 Thessalonians 2:19 KJV

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   Joy in seeing each other again throughout eternity and the joy of being with Christ at his coming (his return).

“For ye are our glory and joy.”

1 Thessalonians 2:20 KJV

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“Greatly desiring to see thee, being mindful of thy tears, that I may be filled with joy;”

2 Timothy 1:4 KJV

“Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Hebrews 12:2 KJV

   The joy that is future and comes by God revealing it has no different effect than if it was happening now because, it is happening— always in the now!

“Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:”

1 Peter 1:8 KJV

   Joy so incredible that we may not be able to articulate it, but it can be experienced. This is why joy is an inside job! It is often both an inside and an exterior response from what comes to us from without. God has these reminders everywhere that cause joy.

“Having many things to write unto you, I would not write with paper and ink: but I trust to come unto you, and speak face to face, that our joy may be full.”

2 John 1:12 KJV

   Joy not written with paper and ink but face to face that “our” joy is full. Joy is made to be experienced, immediately.

“I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.”

3 John 1:4 KJV

   The writer (Paul), and the author (God), have no greater joy than to see their children (in the World), and (in the Word), walk in truth.!

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   There is joy everywhere –

Snowflakes on your tongue and eyelashes
Squiggly mud between your toes
Fish leaping from the water
A red barn, especially in the winter snow
The contrast of a pair of cardinals, in the white snow
Building a snowman
Making mud pies
Sandcastles – seeing them and building them
Candles and fires
Cooking fragrances – seasonings and spices
Fresh cut grass and growing living things
Decorating for the holidays
Cookies and Candy, Gingerbread
The first flower of spring – crocus coming up through the snow
Bubble baths
Singing birds
Seeing a hummingbird, a butterfly or a honey bee
Bluebird and Robin eggs and their fledglings leaving the nest
Dancing in the rain
Ice skating or pretending to, inside with your socks on and with children
Puppies and kittens and children
A hug and a kiss –

and the list is almost endless.

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   There is joy everywhere.

   There was a band leader named Louis Prima (December 7, 1910 – August 24, 1978). He was an American trumpeter, singer, entertainer, and bandleader. He once sang on a song – ‘Enjoy Yourself’

   So, go ahead and Joy and En-joy yourself!

   Now if you want to dispute any of this, Go for it, but I did not write the Bible, I am just…

 

…a witness.

Dahni

An Alternative to Forgiveness

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An Alternative to Forgivingness

By Dahni
© 2023, all rights reserved

 
   I am aware, as a Christian, I am certain of at least a few things. One is that quite often, we are commanded to forgive others and this would include ourselves. Perhaps the latter may seem improbable or difficult, but not impossible.
 
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

Ephesians 4:32 King James Version (one of many, many references to forgiveness) KJV
   
   God forgives and He forgets—
 
“For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more.”
 
Hebrews 8:12 KJV
 
   Should we forget? 
 
“Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,” 
 
Philippians 3:13 KJV
 
   Is it even possible to forget? Take at look at I Corinthians chapter 13. In speaking of the several characteristics of walking in this, the wonderful Love of God, God’s Word says of this “love” —
 
“Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, THINKETH NO EVIL;”
 
I Corinthians 13:5 KJV
 
   WOW, how could not even thinking evil be possible, if we could remember our sins or we never forget them? Well it is possible to live like this. But still, we have this treasure in an earthen vessel. (see: II Corinthians 4:7 KJV)
 
   Personally, it is generally not hard for me to forgive others because, I know what I have been forgiven of.
 
   But I also know again that I have this treasure in an earthen vessel. I know that I am fraught with faults and failures, weaknesses, and imperfection.
 
   When it comes to forgiveness, there are times when I find this extremely difficult, if not impossible, especially, when we’re talking about forgiving and forgetting what others have done, not for what they’ve done against me, but to others.
 
   Being human, I want restitution, sometimes vengeance, and sometimes, to see the comeuppance due to certain ones, whose behavior I view as reprehensible.
 
   I am mindful that God will repay and it’s not up to me. This does not in any way mean I find this to be easy to do. (see: Romans 12:19 KJV)
 
   I know that despite the truth of God’s Word, sometimes we must endure and we see so much contradiction and confusion, cruelty and downright evil in the world. With so many opposites appearing as what is perceived as reality and normal, there is to me, no wonder why people have a difficulty believing God, believing in God— in His goodness, and forgiveness and not forgetting the evil that is done.
 
   I look to examples of how others deal with such things. I find beauty, comfort and encouragement from those who stand against such and endure the bitterness and the bite of sin and evil against our mortal flesh, our souls and our spirits if possible.
 
   I know that it was for joy (the revelation of you and I one day being with Jesus Christ, for what he stood against and for), that he could endure. I know it was because of this “joy” that he, though despising the shame being hurled at God his Father, because of others rejection of him and thus God, and all because Jesus always did his father’s will. I know it was this “joy” that enabled him to endure to the end. 
 
“Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.”
 
Hebrews 12:2 KJV
 
    I have given the example of Jesus Christ. The apostle Paul, who wrote the seven Church epistles, “to “fulfill the word of God,” (see: Colossians 1:25), is, another example.
 
   But Paul voted (cast his ballot), for the death of Jesus Christ, directing other followers to be imprisoned and he consented (agreed with, voted, cast his ballot), for the stoning of Stephen a great man, a doer of many miracles in the first century Church. Perhaps now you can understand another verse of scripture, which is to this day, still being misinterpreted and accuses God for what he does not do. Is it precious in the sight of God that his children are killed because, they immediately go to heaven to be with Him?
 
“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.”
 
Psalm 116:15 KJV
 
   The word “precious” above is literally the word “costly.” It costs God much to loose any of his saints (heaven’s holiest), as they are no longer on the earth to do the works of Jesus Christ and greater works (see John 14:12)
 
   The apostle Paul said of himself —

And I said, Lord, they know that I imprisoned and beat in every synagogue them that believed on thee: And when the blood of thy martyr Stephen was shed, I also was standing by, and consenting unto his death, and kept the raiment of them that slew him.”

Acts 22:19, 20 KJV

   If there was ever an example of forgiving and forgetting, Jesus Christ and the Apostle Paul are two examples. But how difficult is it, to not only forgive, but to also forget?
 
   Jesus Christ was a perfect man, born without sin and never committed sin. By choice (freedom of will), he always did the will of God, his Father. But he forgave and he forgot.
 
   The apostle Paul (formerly Saul of Tarsus), was a member of the ruling body of Israel, known as the Sanhedrin. They would have been like the Supreme court, whose decisions were final. According to the Misnah or or the Mishna “study by repetition”, or “counsel,” the first major written collection of the Jewish oral traditions known as, the Oral Torah, these 70 elders plus Moses himself are the source for the 71 judges of the “Great Sanhedrin.”
 
   For details of the apostle Paul’s life prior to his conversion to Christianity, see at least the following references:
 
Acts 6:8 to 7:60, (Acts 9:4, 22:7 and 26:14), Acts 23:6, Acts 26:10 and Galatians 1:13, 14
 
   Look at Acts 22 —
 
“And I [Paul] persecuted this way unto the death, binding and delivering into prisons both men and women.”
 
Acts 22:4 KJV
 
   I have given two examples, one of Jesus Christ, and that of the apostle Paul. They had to wrestle with forgiveness and they had to contend with forgetting.
 
   The apostle Paul once made reference to a particular Roman torture technique that he himself was subjected to and delivered from. He was literally tied to a dead corpse, which would have eventually killed him as the rotting flesh would have begun to rot his own flesh. But Paul used this literal situation to convey a greater spiritual truth— comparing the weakness of sinful flesh when he said—
 
“O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death (literally— “this dead body”)?”
 
Romans 7:24 KJV
 
   But I find these two individuals almost superhuman, and I myself have often needed some less than perfect flesh to be able to relate to. Be they real or fictionalized or at least embellished, I seem to have needed such as this, to make its point upon my heart, especially recently.
 
   I found such an example in the memory of a movie I had watched years ago. It is from the life of a woman who had to endure the shame of rape and to keep it hidden from her own husband to keep him alive. This is a movie wherein I found so much depth of heart in the same unfolding— horrific and tragic events. For the opposite reasons, my wife Susan, refuses to watch this because, it is so — horrible and tragic.
 
   But the movie I am referring to here is called ‘Rob Roy’. It is the true story of a 1700’s Scottish Klansman named, Rob Roy MacGregor, portrayed by Liam Neeson. His wife is Mary MacGregor and she is played by Jessica Lange.
 
   What was her alternative to forgiving and forgetting the evil she endured by another? To me, the greatest line of the entire movie and its main point to me, and the dogged determination on her face when it was spoken, occurred when Jessica Lange, as Mary McGregor, facing the one who had raped her to humiliate her and to draw her husband out so that he could falsely accuse him and kill him for crimes that he himself had committed, to hide his own sin and guilt, was simply and so beautifully stated —
 
” I will think of you no more!”
 
   If we cannot forgive and forget or if we refuse to forgive and forget, perhaps an alternative without seeking vengeance is, to live peaceably and quietly with those we love and of the others to…
 
…Think on them no more!
 
   I find (especially and particularly this Holiday Season), in myself— a sweetness, a cheerfulness and a peace, despite sorrow which has come to me over someone dear to me in passing. I am resigned to let God do what He does and to do my best in what I get to do and should do.
 
   Some dear loves of mine have passed. But they are at peace and in pain no more. Their next waking moment will be at the return of Jesus Christ, when he comes for his saints. First he will come for those dead in Christ and then those of his alive at his coming. Whether I forgive others and forget what they have done may in essence be, what I have done, but I do not have to—
 
think on them any more!
   
   My wife Susan and another have also, found some solace, some consolation and some resolve in this.
 
   To me, this is safe anchorage in an ocean of doubt, upon calms seas, for me, my little dinghy.
 
Dinghy

Dinghy on calm water, by John White

Now if you want to dispute any of this, Go for it, but I did not write the Bible, I am just…

…a witness.

Dahni